I just spent some time with the Big Guy in Adoration. Dealing with a little stress, I couldn't formulate prayers, so all I did was sit there.
After a while, I asked, "What do You want me to do?"
"Just love" was the answer.
That's all we're really called to do. Hold mom's hand. Answer her questions when she's confused. Make burgers for wife kitteh because she asked for them. Go into work and deal with some crises for my friend. That's it. We're not called to succeed, just love.