When Schadenfreud Is Better Than Compassion

 ... you might need to rethink things.

While researching my blog post series on romance, I came across tons of reaction videos with the theme, "Women Hitting the Wall." This one is a good example.

Snarking and sneering to these women is just evil.

Modern women didn't invent the modern dating scene. They were born into it and the current carried them along. Most people aren't strong enough to swim against the cultural tides. Heck, I've been a rebel blogger for almost 20 years now and if there's one thing this blog has taught me, it's that I have been, and still am, filled with unconscious biases and false assumptions.

It doesn't help anyone to mock these poor girls. These videos all tell a story of women who want to be wives and mothers, something any defender of civilization should embrace, support and encourage. Yes, the angry, lesbian feminists poisoned the culture for men. Yes, a lot of us men have been getting the raw end of the deal.

So what?

Man up and stop complaining. If there's a woman who is so frustrated and unhappy that she posts a video essentially telling you she wishes someone would wife her up, applaud her. Give her tips about how to be successful. 

For example, the data from the various dating apps clearly shows that women only respond to to the top 10-20% of men. Instead of laughing at the 4s, 5s, 6s and 7s who think they can bag a 9 or a 10, paint them an image of their future with a solid guy who doesn't look like a movie star or earn $100K+.

That's what these girls need, a vision of their future with warmth, love, stability and children. Yep, married men still live in the 1950s, expected to protect, provide and cherish. Yep, the angry, lesbian feminists wrecked a large part of the culture. It's tragic.

However, the only way out is through and that means through affection, compassion and empathy. The culture will be changed by changing minds and no prospect ever bought a product because they'd been told they were stupid.